Don’t be afraid to do things on your own

Recently I wrote my review about the new DC Comics movie: Blue Beetle. One thing I did not mention in the post was that I went by myself! 

I know, I know, some people might think that is a little strange, but it’s something I enjoy doing from time to time. It’s okay to do things on your own. It’s okay to go out to eat by yourself, or go to the movies by yourself. 

Honestly, going to see a movie by myself is one of the most fun and relaxing things I do. Here are a few reasons why I love it so much:

1. You don’t have to worry about anyone else.
   1. I mean no offense to my wife when I say, you don’t have to talk to anyone. That is a huge pro for me. You can fully focus on the movie and the characters. You don’t have to hear “I’m gonna go get another snack” or “quit trying to hold my hand” (Lea doesn’t do PDA!)
2. It’s relaxing
   1. As I mentioned above, going by yourself to the movies is so relaxing. You can sit there, in the dark and in complete silence, and really pay attention. 
   1. It also helps you think clearly. Sometimes the movie isn’t that good and your mind wanders. Being in that dark theater, sitting by yourself, really opens your mind (it’s even better when there are no other people around you). 
3. It’s good for you
   1. Most of all, going to a movie by yourself (or doing anything by yourself, really) is good for you. In my opinion, it’s good for your mental health when you can just get away for a few hours.
   1. You’re in the moment. You’re present, you’re there, and you’re not thinking of anyone else, or wondering about anything other than the movie. All your cares disappear for two – to – three – hours. It’s really a great experience.

If you haven’t gone to a movie by yourself, I encourage you to. If you’re nervous that you’re going to look like a fool, don’t be! You won’t. Also, who cares if you do? You’re never going to see those people in that theater again! Just do it if that’s something you want to do. It’s fun! 

Don’t be afraid to do things on your own. Having a little “me – time” is good for the soul.

Peter

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